ChatBox

For no reason, I’m reading the University’s blog this morning. Just read a few and found that I’ve read most of it. They were sent out to students’ email. Then, just when I want to close it, a little white box on the right caught my attention. It says: ......(please keep comments professional) Hmm.... how professional can a ChatBox be??

Though it boils down to what the function of the Chatbox is, and where it is. In a random blog, or a business, professional blog?

Chatbox in this particular blog I believe should be a professional one (it’s too obvious isn’t it?) but people still put in comments which are too personal and Unprofessional. Do we read instructions? Or do we not read instructions? Now isn’t human complex?

Should heart-breaking comments be made public? Are random comments meaning no harm but can be self-harming necessary? Contradicting comments?

Maybe some comments should be let slide... not made. Some things left untold. You could say it, but not publicly? Personally send out an email to concerning members?

Remember I mentioned we don’t know each other that well really. How do we know a person until we really do? Even then, we might not still really know the person. Is there an X-Ray – like machine to check out how a person really is like in the inside? You can make a lot of money with that...

I was just wondering whilst reading the ChatBox if it’s better to comment on the post instead of the chatbox? Or maybe some comments are better sent to the emails are suggestion box in Uni instead? I guess then the emails would be flooded with emails. And there are too many suggestions to read. Some are not relevant too...

Let’s not have the chatbox then...  Then, problems again... No way to give out suggestions... writing on paper is a hassle, wasting papers, killing trees... Students can’t be bothered to write suggestions? Or to see councils regarding matters? Better for the council? Fewer things to do?

Then people complain again... Why no suggestion box? We are not receiving enough feedbacks from students... How??

See!! Life is a mystery... Human is complex and confusing. We are never satisfied, we can never be perfect, and we cannot make everyone happy. We just can’t!! Or can we?? (*hoping.....) Sorry Maslow... I’m killing you hierarchy. Self-actualisation is a Scam!! 

Life is a Mystery...

Are humans worth studying?? Why do we study human behaviours? Why do we study animal behaviours? We know people are different. So what?

Do we tell them? Do we change them? What if they won’t listen? They don’t want to listen. Knowing and Doing is 2 different things.....

It’s interesting some may say. It’s fascinating to know. To be able to predict or foretell what the person is going to do or how they are going to react from looking at them. SO??

Many people do that most of the time. Whether the prediction is right or wrong is another story. Imagine that you are observing a guy by the road. Thinking you can sort-of guess what he is about to do or what he is going to do, you guessed. Now, if you guessed right, what do you get from it? And if you get it wrong?

Some say we can change things if we know from advance. But how much can you change? Can you change it if the other party don’t want to change? I know a guy who likes to warn people. This this this will happen if you do that. That that that will happen if you this. If they listen, OK. If they don’t? Will the warning really be right? Or maybe a twist of fate, the warning didn’t come true?

Fate. Leave it to fate. But many people take fate into their own hands. How about THAT!! We control our life, others don’t!! Is that really true? How much of it is true??

Yes, I guess we are interesting to study... We changes every moment. We changes so often we can’t even tell when we change. We just do. But is the change good or bad? Right or wrong? What we think is right might be wrong for others. We may think we are good, but others may think the opposite. We may think we know the person well but we actually don’t. Vice versa.

So, can we really understand others? Do we really understand others? Should we criticise others? Shall we study others? Maybe we should study ourselves??  o_O   ~_~!

The world is not perfect. We are not perfect. It’s never perfect. It can never be perfect.