Monday, April 16, 2012

Why do We Post on Facebook?

1.       To get attention we don’t get in real life.
(But if we aren’t getting any in real life, most probably we won’t get it in FB either…)
2.       To say things we don’t dare to say to people in real.
(If not dare to say to person, means not dare to put names. So, what is the point when it makes no difference?)
3.       To complain about things to the world/network of friends
(Complains without actions does not change the situation)
4.       To express our Emotion to everyone hoping we can get some sort of replies.
(Typical attention seeking behavior. Looking for others sympathy. Can only be encouraging an unhealthy behavior… )
5.       To speak our mind; about things can’t be said to one particular person.
(So, we chose to say to the world in general. If the person chose not to read or did not come across the message?)
6.       To share to others our favorite videos
7.       To tell others how pretty we are in pictures
8.       To stalk on people we are interested in.

I’ve suddenly see no need to post on Facebook.  However, it does has it’s other uses.. Like checking group updates, connecting with people not near to me and stalking others behaviors.

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

Self-Reflection


Wow~~ IF the blog’s content reflects the writer of the Blog, then people will be viewing me as a very negative person. In some ways, I guess I am. But I can be cheerful too~~ Only on some occasions where I have friends around me... Certainly you won’t smile to yourself right?
On the other hand, Blogging is like a self-reflection. The more you write, the easier it is to continue writing.  The ideas keep flowing and they won’t stop.  Your subconscious desires and what you want to say will eventually come out!! Could that be the real you?!?!?
Then, I should post more negative things as well, not only negative emotions~~

Today's Catch~~


After much negative, sad and stressful post, Lets balance out the blog with some positivity.
Not because today my day is filled with positivity, but because I would like to end my day with as much positive energy as possible.
Today:
            I.       I woke up late but it’s good cause I got extra half an hour of sleep.
          II.       I am more productive than other days. I actually feel like I accomplished something.
        III.       I have lunch with more than 2 people. We chatted. Food was alright but Lunch was Great.
       IV.       I wrote about my aims and dreams for my future career. I am proud of my dreams. Whether I can do it is not of concern right now. Right now, I have a dream!!
         V.       I was told I am a good and nice person. Some could not accept me because they don’t know me.
       VI.       I found more people who are able to accept me as I am. I did not wonder if they are just being nice or what. I just accept what I get.
     VII.       I pour out and share out some personal feelings. It was not easy but it felt good in the end because it was taken well.
   VIII.       I found an extra strength in myself.

I think I am lucky. So lucky I didn’t know it. So many others are suffering from whatever they are suffering from. But I am lucky because I have taken the first step to improving my well-being. J