It's Not Like That

Don’t say it if you don’t know it,

Only say it when you are sure of it.

Don’t ask for it if you don’t really want it,

Only ask when you really need to know.

Don’t do it if you don’t mean it,

Only do it when situation requires it.

                Must be my luck to say something and then that something happened ten folds (X10). Great~~~  @.@

                Sometimes, there are things that should not, must not, and doesn’t have to be said nor expressed out loud. Keep it to ourselves, within ourselves, only known to ourselves.

                Be careful of what you ask for, thinking twice before really deciding on it. Make sure decision made is the best and sure. Because once decided, there will be no going back. Make sure there are no regrets in these decisions.

There are also things that must not be done, doesn’t have to be and could be avoided. Self-discipline, self-control, will power and strength to restraint self from doing the wrong thing at the wrong time.

What is done is done. Cannot be reversed nor taken back. Right actions will be advantages, but if decision is wrong? Do not sulk on it, Work on it! Repair it, mend it.

No one person is perfect, No one person has not done wrong before. It’s not the wrong that you have made, but action taken after that. Do you repeat the same mistakes? Or do you work on it, and take it as a lesson that prevent you from doing it again?

Words, and Everlasting Word~~

Words can have everlasting effect, different meanings; used in different context, different ways, by different people.

We use words to make sentence, we use sentences to make speech. We use then speech in conversations.

Children use private speech often. To think out what to say, how to say it and when suitable to say it. Children learn to speak this way making use of their cognitive ability that’s gradually developing and improving.

Do the adults still? Since their cognitions are already ‘developed’, do they still use the private speech in conversations? Should they?

It is so important to think out what to say before saying it as words can have negative effect on top of positive ones. Negative ones, especially are everlasting, breaking relationships, widening gaps, misunderstandings, hurting people’s feelings.

Do we revert back to childhood behaviour and cognition, taking for granted that we are old enough to know what to say that we don’t even control what we say anymore? Or maybe our reversal cognitive ability causes us to act and think like a kid again?

One can never be too careful. We should always be careful of how we speak and behave.