I always worry that things I do aren't enough or not complete. Even sometimes thinks that there are more that I could have done compared to what has been prepared. Especially when I realised others has done more than I have and better too.
It made me feel useless and aimed to do better than others. But this in the sense put more pressure on me to perform. And whenever I could not as I expect to be, I feel stressed.
I have always been able to tell others how to face this problem but never to myself. I guess same goes to Tim. She will have to similar thoughts like me. And even though she performed much better than me but still faces this situation. However she said this to me when I pose her a question.
Grace: Would you feel wasted if what you have put so much effort into doing and preparing that actually, what are prepared aren't needed?
Tim: No. Because I feel however much effort you have put in, no matter if they are needed or not. There will be reward back. It may not be needed for now. But it will be useful in the future. It's all worth it. Nothing is wasted.
This is a good advise. Thanks Tim!! ^^
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